Travel

Travels With Charley

Just finished John Steinbeck’s Travels With Charley. About halfway through I started jotting down stuff that struck me as particularly insightful, to share here. I’m sure the first half of the book was equally quotable, but I’m too lazy to go back through it and look for particulars.

Actually, there was one early passage that I did search out:

American cities are like badger holes, ringed with trash — all of them — surrounded by piles of wrecked and rusting automobiles, and almost smothered with rubbish. Everything we use comes in boxes, cartons, bins, the so-called packaging we love so much. The mountains of things we throw away are much greater than the things we use. In this, if in no other way, we can see the wild and reckless exuberance of our production, and waste seems to be the index. Driving along I thought how in France or Italy every item of these throw-out things would have been saved and used for something. This is not said in criticism of one system or the other but I do wonder whether there will come a time when we can no longer afford our wastefulness — chemical wastes in the rivers, metal wastes everywhere, and atomic wastes buried deep in the earth or sunk in the sea. When an Indian village became too deep in its own filth, the inhabitants moved. And we have no place to which to move.”

That was written in 1961. We’ve gotten better at disposing of our waste, but we’re producing more of it than ever before. Makes you wonder where the tipping point will be.

On urban growth and lamenting lost beauty:

This sounds as though I bemoan an older time, which is the preoccupation of the old, or cultivate an opposition to change, which is the currency of the rich and stupid.”

It was that last bit that caught my interest, because somehow I’d missed the connection before. It’s true though: nearly all the people I’ve known who are steadfastly opposed to change — the “same = good, different = bad” philosophy — are people who’d been born into a certain level of wealth and exist in a state of determined stagnation. They cling to whatever cultural circumstance their ancestors accumulated their wealth in, instead of continuing to grow and thrive in a changing world. Most end up with less than they started with, or with nothing at all, because they won’t adapt, and they tend to blame their lost prosperity on the people who are adapting and thriving.

On creativity vs criticism:

In all ages, rich, energetic, and successful nations, when they have carved their place in the world, have felt hunger for art, for culture, even for learning and beauty. The Texas cities shoot upward and outward. The colleges are heavy with gifts and endowments. Theaters and symphony orchestras sprout overnight. In any huge and boisterous surge of energy and enthusiasm there must be errors and miscalculations, even breach of judgment and taste. And there is always the non-productive brotherhood of critics to disparage and to satirize, to view with horror and contempt.”

That passage was one of many that made me wish I’d read this book years ago, because it wasn’t until very recently that I began to realize that the people who are doing all the criticizing are the ones who aren’t creating anything of their own. “The non-productive brotherhood of critics,” what an apt description.

This was my favorite:

When people are engaged in something they are not proud of, they do not welcome witnesses. In fact, they come to believe the witness causes the trouble.”

This is stone cold truth. It’s pretty much the story of my life, but I only came to recognize and understand it in the past couple of years.

I think I’m going to have to reread the rest of Steinbeck’s books. Other than “Travels With Charley” I haven’t read anything of his since high school, and I think I’d enjoy them more now. He seemed like someone I’d love to spend an afternoon conversing with; he saw straight to the truth of things and wasn’t afraid to talk about it. And he seemed like someone who wouldn’t have considered it a waste of his time to spend an afternoon conversing with a stranger .

I think I want to be John Steinbeck when I grow up, but without all the drinking and violence and with more gardening.

Also I think there might be a few more road trips in the future for the kids and me. Their world has been much smaller, so far, than mine was at their age, and I don’t want them to fall into the small-minded thinking habits that little isolated towns tend to encourage. They need to see giant redwoods and the Grand Canyon and immense waterfalls and elegant, timeless architecture: creation on a grand scale. They need to experience the kind of awe and wonder that changes a person forever.

Guess it’s time to update the To Do list. That new mud room might have to wait.

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Luke’s Belated Birthday Post

Luke hit the Big One-Oh in August. He’d told me way back last winter that for his tenth birthday he wanted to do what we’d done when Elizabeth turned eleven: a two-day trip to Disneyland and California Adventure. I told him that sounded like a grand idea, and when I was working at the Census job I set aside a chunk of cash to cover the expenses, basing my estimate on what we’d spent for Elizabeth’s trip.

A few weeks before his birthday, I started looking into the details and realized that the only SoCal discount the resort is offering this year is a 3-day pass. It was a great deal, but even so, the money I’d set aside wasn’t even going to cover the cost of the passes to get in. Never mind the two-night hotel stay, the food, the gas…yarg.

Now, this was a complication, not a catastrophe — except for the fact that my hard drive had just crashed, it was going to cost upwards of $300 for a new one, and if I went ahead with the Disneyland plans there was no telling when I might be able to afford the repairs. Part of me felt like the only reasonable thing to do was to cancel Luke’s birthday trip, or shorten it to a single day at Disneyland. And in fact that probably would have been the “reasonable” course of action.

The funny thing is, I never gave any serious thought to going that route. The kids wanted three days at the parks, I wanted three days at the parks, it wasn’t going to kill us to be computerless for a while, and a kid only goes from single-digits to double-digits once in his life. I bought the 3-day passes.

It was TOTALLY the right choice. Three days is exactly the right amount of time to spend at the Happy Place. We went to Disneyland the first day…

…California Adventure the second day…

…and back to Disneyland on the third day:

It was definitely the highlight of the kids’ year. (I had a blast too, but the highlight of my year was getting new wall siding to replace the tinfoil stuff that used to let in the wind and cold and bugs and stuff. But that’s another post.) I know that from a strictly logical point of view it doesn’t really make sense, on our budget, to spend all the money we spend on these birthday outings. But someday when Luke and Elizabeth have grown up and moved on and they look back at their childhood years, it’s not the home improvements or the size of the savings account that they’re going to remember with a warm glow of nostalgia. It’s these times we spend enjoying each another’s company, sharing our laughter and ourselves with one another. And maybe someday when they have kids of their own, they’ll instinctively know how create a life of true joy and love and laughter for their own families, instead of buying into the world’s relentless message that More Stuff is the key to happiness.

Happy Love Thursday, everyone. May your Happy Place always be shared with the ones you love!

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Wordless Wednesday: Annual Pilgrimage

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Wordless Wednesday: Dialga At Camp

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Summer Adventures, Part 3

“Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air…”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson

I just spent an amazing five days at a horse camp in Montaña de Oro State Park in up in San Luis Obispo with Julie and her sister Kelly. Julie and I drove up on Wednesday; Kelly lives in Merced and met us there. A fourth girl, Heather, joined us Friday night and left early Sunday morning.

This park is absolutely gorgeous. There are mountains and creeks and little foresty places, and a long sandy beach that just begs to be galloped upon.

The first day we were there, Mahogany wanted nothing to do with the ocean. On the second day I coaxed her into at least walking in wet sand. This was big progress for my water-phobic mare, but she forfeited her brownie points later in the day when I had to dismount and lead her across a tiny little creek back in the hills. Actually she leaped over the creek and landed practically on top of me. No cookie for her!

On day three we actually got her to stand quietly as the waves washed over her ankles! Whoot! And on the fourth day, miracle of miracles:

Day four was full of firsts, actually. She willingly crossed a creek about three times wider than the one she’d balked at before, without the slightest hesitation. I guess once you’ve been in the ocean those little babbling brooks aren’t quite so terrifying anymore. Then we rode a trail that took us over several long wooden footbridges, and amazingly Mahogany moseyed right onto and across them.

This trip was the best thing that could have happened to her! I’m hoping to find time to ride her down to my hideout sometime soon and see if she’ll cross that creek now, while the experiences are fresh in her mind.

I can’t say enough good things about this park. On two different days we saw seals swimming near the shore, and once Julie galloped her horse out within ten feet of one inquisitive seal. We had campfires every night and the food was awesome thanks to Kelly, who is quite the camp chef. The only unpleasant surprise for me was how cold it was. A chilly marine layer hung over the whole area for four of the five days we were there, and I froze my butt off the first two nights. On the third day we drove into town for more ice for the coolers, and I bought a sleeping bag (the air mattress and single comforter I’d brought with me were just not cutting it). After that I was toasty warm at night. On day four the haze cleared and the sun came out, and I was so unprepared for that I got a blistering sunburn. Sigh.

Here’s our campsite:

Here are Kelly (seated), Julie, and Jake, one of the two dogs Julie brought:

Dueling cameras!

By the end of the trip, Mahogany was looking lean and fit:

I’m so glad we did this. It was even worth coming home to a house that looked like flying monkeys had been living in it for five days (Steve stayed here with the kids while I was gone). I’d love to do more stuff like that, although ideally I’d like to be able to bring the kids along so they can share the experience. This is something every kid should get to do, I think.

I can’t believe the Summer Of Adventure is almost over. School starts back up in less than two weeks! We’re going to Knott’s Berry Farm tomorrow for Luke’s birthday, and then it’s back to the boring old grind. I think we made pretty good use of our summer though, all things considered. I’m aaalllmmost ready for Fall, and cooler weather. Almost.

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