Some Sort of Garden

I have achieved both of my New Year’s resolutions for 2025.

The first resolution was to get “some sort of garden” started. I’d been procrastinating on that, because I have big plans for my backyard garden and it all feels complicated and intimidating.

So I started small. I ordered four bare-root Triple Crown blackberry plants and built a wire trellis for them along one side of the house. While I was digging around over there, I also installed a tall gate I’d been wanting.

I spent so much time on the trellis and gate that by the time I got the blackberries into the ground, three of them succumbed to summer heat and grasshoppers before they could get established.

The fourth survived and is doing fine. I’ll use that one to propagate replacements for the other three.

I also planted lemon balm. I’ve never grown lemon balm before, but I love it in tea.

I chose lemon balm in particular because it’s listed as a good companion plant for blackberries, it’s shade-tolerant and I’m told it spreads as aggressively as mint. Its job is to outcompete the musk thistle and other invasive weeds that want to grow in that strip of ground.

I miss cooking with fresh herbs, so in early September I built a raised bed next to the back porch for next year’s herb garden.

I planted some cool-weather greens as placeholders, and made a little mesh tent to keep the birds from eating the seedlings.

Thanks to an abnormally mild fall this year, my little garden has really thrived. Starting with the three-week-old thinnings, it has provided delicious salads every week.

Unfortunately, as the sun moved into the south it started throwing the shadow of the house over the edge of the garden bed. By the end of September, plant growth had slowed wherever the shadow crept over the bed.

But it all kept growing, just slowly.

The salads were still delicious.

By the end of October, the entire bed was in permanent shade, except for maybe an hour in the late afternoons.

By early November, the Swiss chard had developed white leaf spot from not getting enough light…

and the broccoli and kale were showing faint signs of some kind of powdery mildew.

None of this makes them inedible, I just soak them in vinegar water for a while before making salads with them.

But this inconvenient shadow means I can’t use that bed for my culinary herb garden after all. I have to plant something there that can tolerate full sun for half the year and full shade the other half. All I can think of is parsley. Maybe thyme and sage? I’ll have to experiment and see what works.

In mid-September I ordered some garlic, with the vague intention of planting it in the enriched soil that the deceased blackberry plants had vacated. Once it arrived, I realized that spot doesn’t get nearly enough light for garlic, so I ordered a cheap 4-foot round galvanized garden ring for a temporary raised bed until I figure something else out. For $20 I was expecting the metal ring to be flimsy and basically single-use, but I was pleasantly surprised when it arrived. It seems as sturdy and durable as the expensive ones you see in garden nurseries. I planted softneck garlic in one half…

…and hardneck garlic on the other side, but the hardneck garlic only took up a quarter of the bed, so I ordered some shallots and filled out the bed with those.

Most of the green sprouts in those pics are wheatgrass from the straw, but some of the softneck garlic did sprout in the warm fall weather. We have yet to get our first snow, which is highly unusual here for late November.

Of course once I got started, the gardening bug took over my entire brain. My plans for the backyard garden are getting more ambitious by the day, but that’s a topic for another post.

My second New Year’s resolution is…still a secret. Some accomplishments are fragile.

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Elizabeth

For some reason, Elizabeth never acclimated to Aurora the way Luke and I did. She kept her job at the Goodwill in Denver, preferring a long commute over finding something local. She gradually fell into something like the difficult adolescent phase Luke went through when he was 14, except she is in her mid-20s. She stopped helping around the house, stopped putting any effort into getting along with Luke and me, and withdrew into her basement realm like a grumpy goblin. She was even alienating her oldest childhood friends. Whatever the cause, Elizabeth was not thriving here.

We all sorta just put up with it as long as she was paying her share of the bills. But when she lost the Goodwill job and was unable to land any new employment, it felt like a signal from the universe that the time had come for a reboot. So she asked her dad if she could go stay with him in Arizona, and he readily agreed.

In late March, she packed up as much stuff as she could fit into the Adventuremobile, and Luke drove her out to Steve’s place in Arizona.

It was the right call. She has since acquired a rabbit, a horse, a drivers license and a new job. She is more or less free from the constraints of civilization, out there in the desert.

Photo credit Jaqueline Silkotch

Photo credit Jaqueline Silkotch

Photo credit Jaqueline Silkotch

And here at home, life is peaceful again. Money is tighter with only two incomes, but it’s easier to budget. Luke and I were frankly astonished to discover how much of the household resources Elizabeth had been consuming. Apparently being miserable makes you really hungry and thirsty.

Sometimes life doesn’t go quite the way you’d hoped, but I’m very thankful that Steve is able to provide a safe alternative to the dark and unproductive mental state that Elizabeth was in here. I hope she builds a fulfilling life that puts her talents to good use. And thanks to the magic of the Internet, Luke and I can follow her journey and cheer her on from afar.

There are few things worse than being stuck where you don’t belong. Here’s to starting fresh in a new setting, and growing into the person you were meant to be.

You’ve got this, Elizabeth!

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Durango & Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad, Part II

We spent our two-hour layover in Silverton looking around in shops and enjoying local barbecue and ice cream.

And then we headed back to Durango.

Moth on the window looks like a hang glider.

This is a really nice way to spend a day. Recommended!

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Durango & Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad, Part I

In early October of 2024, we took the Durango & Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad from Durango to Silverton and back. It’s a gorgeous ride and I would recommend it to anyone, especially in the fall.

We drove into Durango with plenty of time to spare, so we started off with a delicious breakfast at
Jean Pierre’s French Bakery.

Then we walked to the depot…

and checked out the D&SNG Museum.

They called for boarding around 9:30 am. We found our reserved seats and the train departed at 9:45, following the Animas River north. The views are soul-nourishing.

Since the line uses a steam locomotive, we replenished the water supply at an old tower along the way.

At about 1:10 pm, we rolled into Silverton for a two-hour layover.

Next up: Silverton and the return trip.

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Grays Peak

My New Year’s resolution for 2024 was to summit a Colorado 14er. So on a gorgeous fall day in late September of last year, we made it happen. We picked one of the “easier” ones, Grays Peak, with the idea that we could maybe cross the saddle to Torreys Peak and bag two 14ers in one day.

It was very dark at 6 am when we set off up the trail, with a crescent moon shining bright against the black sky. But by 6:30 the predawn light was seeping into the landscape.

I don’t have a lot of pics from the ascent, probably because I was focused on climbing. Gray’s might be an easy climb by Colorado standards, but it felt like hard work to us.

By 8am we were above the tree line, and the long shadows threw the mountains into sharp relief.

I’m not sure if the snow in the north-side shade was left over from the previous winter or fresh that fall. Maybe a little of both.

Gentle reader, that climb wore us out.

But we made it to the top!

I reached the summit at about 9:40 am. Luke had gotten there way before me, and Elizabeth was still making her way up.

I don’t have a pic of Elizabeth on the summit, I think we were just too spread out at that point.

The views, of course, were incredible. You can see the whole world from up there.

We unanimously decided against continuing on to Torreys. One mountain was enough for us that day.

Most of my good pics were taken on the way back down. I could breathe again, and appreciate the landscape.

Pika!

You can see the piles of scree on the mountainsides from old landslides.

Finally made it back down below the tree line around noon…

…and made it back to the trailhead around 12:30 pm.

And now that I’ve checked “summit a 14er” off my bucket list, I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’m not as young as I used to be, and exploring on a bicycle is more fun for me these days than hiking up really high mountains.

Glad I did this one though. Looking at the world from a mountaintop is something everyone should experience at least once.

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