Road trip

DAYS 26 THROUGH 28 part II

We’d planned to check out the Mystery Castle in Phoenix on the return trip, but with Elizabeth not feeling well I was prepared to skip it and just head straight home. This suggestion was met with dismay by both kids, though, so on to the castle we went!

The Mystery Castle is at the center of a tale of woe and whimsy. Apparently in 1930 a man named Boyce Gulley found out that he had terminal tuberculosis. He reacted to this news by abandoning his wife and toddler daughter Mary Lou, running away to Phoenix, and building a castle there for the child he’d left behind. Not being a wealthy man, he chose a site near the town dump and built his castle out of whatever he could salvage: bits of cars and wagons, discarded bricks and blocks and stones, old bottles, you name it and he used it.

His wife and daughter never saw him again, or heard anything about him until after his death 15 years later, when they recieved legal notice of the property they’d inherited.

Something about this story tickled my kids’ imaginations in a big way; they really wanted to see a castle made of salvaged odds and ends for themselves.

This “castle” is really something. The materials it was built from were very Southwestern in flavor, so the final product is equal parts Camelot and Spanish Hacienda:

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Nearly all the furniture, both inside and out in the courtyards, was built-in. Doesn’t this guest bed look comfy:

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There are a total of 13 fireplaces in the castle. Because Phoenix can get, you know, a little chilly for three or four weeks out of the year. ;^)

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Here’s one of the windows in the chapel:

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Mary Lou Gully actually still lives in the castle her father built for her. Some of–well, *most* of her decor choices are a bit eccentric.

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This is the bottom of a dumbwaiter shaft that comes down into the “tavern.” The top of the shaft looks like a wishing well on an upper courtyard. Pretty nifty design for keeping partygoers well-supplied:

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Poor Elizabeth skipped most of the inner tour for fear of throwing up inside the castle, but she did make it through the whole visit without any mishaps.

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My pics don’t really do this place justice–it’s quite the architectural wonder.

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When we’d seen everything there was to see, we got back in the car and headed for home. Here’s a shot of Palm Desert as seen from a few miles farther up the Palms To Pines Hwy:

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We arrived home a little past 8pm, local time, and immediately got buried under an avalanche of happy dogs and a happy Steve. I helped Elizabeth get settled into a warm bath, and then just kicked back and enjoyed being home again.

This road trip was an amazing experience. Three weeks later the kids are still talking about things they saw and did from one end of the country to the other. As for me, I’ve settled back into the domestic routine with a fresh sense of contentment and appreciation for the life I have here. Just in time for Thanksgiving, I have reconnected with my thankfulness.

Life is good. :^)

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DAYS 26 THROUGH 28 part I

We left Aaron’s house on Friday morning en route to Odessa TX. Texas is a freaking big state; it takes a while to get through.

Saturday we drove from Odessa back to Lordsburg NM.

Sunday morning things got interesting. An excerpt from the travel journal entry I made the next day, Monday:

Yesterday wasn’t one of our better days. Elizabeth got hit by some sort of stomach bug; either that or the overdose of Zoo candy finally caught up with her. All I know is that as we were getting ready to leave Lordsburg she suddenly spewed technicolor vomit on the hotel parking lot.

And again in the restaurant where we stopped for breakfast.

And again in the restaurant’s restroom. Twice.

And at random intervals throughout the day.

Pretty much all we could do was keep her well-supplied with barf bags and sanitizing wet wipes. The mere mention of food was enough to set her off. She was just miserable.

It was a very long day. But even the less-than-ideal circumstances didn’t squelch the kids’ youthful curiousity and sense of adventure. Somewhere near El Paso we’d begun seeing billboards advertising “THE THING,” whatever that was. By the time we got to Arizona THE THING billboards were all over the place, and by the time we got to the appropriate exit Luke and even Elizabeth were wild to find out what THE THING might be. I admit to a certain amount of curiousity myself. So, we took the exit, pulled into the parking lot of a big gift/souvenir store, and plunked down a grand total of $2.50 to see THE THING.

As tourist traps go, this was one of the strangest I’d ever seen. It was a museum of sorts, full of random oddities. We walked through a series of sheds; the first was full of old vehicles (including a 1937 Rolls Royce which is “believed” to have been used by Hitler) and figures carved out of wood (from classic wooden Indians and the oxen pulling a Conestoga wagon to a bizarre life-size display of torturers and their victims).

The second shed was full of…um…well…I don’t know what they were. Someone had taken branches and chunks of wood and added a few details here and there to turn them into creatures. There were dozens of them. A few samples:

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Finally we come to the third shed. Here are more of the weird tree animals, and the actual THING.

THE THING is apparently a mummified woman holding a mummified baby, both encased in glass and concrete. There are no details given as to who they were or where they hail from, and the longer I looked at them the more they looked like they might just be papier maché. You be the judge:

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Our curiousity satisfied (sort of), we continued on our way.

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DAY 25

Thursday morning Aaron and Kris took us to a great park where the kids could unleash their energy on something other than the house. It had a terrific playground, complete with climbing wall…
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…space exploration ops…
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…all sorts of swings (that’s Mandi on the tire swing with Luke)…
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…and a bunch of other fun stuff. Gotta say, Frankenclown sorta gave me the wiggins…
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…but I’m not a fan of clowns anyway. Clowns are scary. And btw, see that kid with the red bow in her hair? Did Not Play Well With Others. She attempted to bully pretty much every other child on the playground, then zeroed in on Brendon. Maybe he looked like an easy target, being the youngest and all. Kris was not amused, and soon sent the little thug on her way.

We spent a few hours at the park, long enough for the kids to get all the frolicking out of their systems. But the fun was just beginning, because that evening we took Luke, Elizabeth and Mandi to the Fort Worth Zoo for its Halloween Boo At The Zoo event. Everything a kid could want: candy, critters, spooky decorations…

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“Lasers charged; fire at will!”
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Hang like an Egyptian…

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I liked the cool pumpkin sculptures:
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And the kids had a blast in the Blue Room, where they got to see themselves projected into a tv image:

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Day 25 was definitely an all-around success. :^)

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DAYS 22 THROUGH 24

After three weeks of clear traveling weather, it was raining the morning we left Georgia. An excerpt from the “checking in” email I sent out that night:

We’re at the hotel in Vicksburg. We got rained on pretty much all day, from Georgia to Mississippi, in light sprinkles and steady showers and blinding downpours. It’s raining cats and dogs here tonight.

The hotel website said it had a heated indoor pool. It does indeed have an indoor pool, but “heated” is a gross exaggeration. I mean, there aren’t chunks of ice floating in it, but the word “heat” really doesn’t apply.

The kids were not deterred. There’s a pool, it has water in it, it must be swum.

So we swam. For about an hour. It was…invigorating.

And now we’re headed back to our room for hot showers and a good night’s sleep. There’s a complimentary breakfast in the morning here and then we’ll be off to DFW.

We set out the next morning for Aaron’s house. The weather cleared up somewhere in Texas, and we had perfect weather for the rest of the road trip.

I smiled as I passed this sign:

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Casey’s heard really good things about that place. ;^)

General Observation: Texas has the best rest areas! Seriously. We stopped at a lot of rest areas between California and Georgia, and the TX ones never failed to impress me with their shiny well-groomed niceness. I like the tile mosaics most of them have on their restroom walls too, although this particular image puzzled me:
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I can’t tell what it’s supposed to be. A giant oil rig inserted into the Dallas skyline? That’s my best guess.

Anyway.

We got to Aaron’s house the afternoon of Tuesday the 23rd, and settled in for a planned three-day stay. Wednesday afternoon Jera arrived, and that evening Aaron, his daughter Mandi, Jera, me, Luke and Elizabeth met up with Aron at an Italian restaurant called Carrabba’s for supper.

I can’t *believe* I forgot to get any pics of Jera or Aron. This is a sad, sad omission in my road trip scrapbook. But the supper couldn’t have been more fun; truly one of the highlights of the trip. I was astonished to realize later that we spent over two-and-a-half hours there at Carrabba’s–the time just flew by in lively chitchat and laughter. This was the first time I’d met Aron and Jera in person, I’m so glad we were finally able to do that! Very fun people.

And the kids were good and the food was wonderful. A perfect evening. :^)

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DAYS 6 THROUGH 21, part IV

Of course, the visit to Georgia wasn’t really about hiking or parks or Six Flags. I went to hang out with Dani because I missed our conversations, and the old simplicity of the early years of our friendship. Twenty years ago Dani befriended my awkward, prickly, socially inept eighteen-year-old self, and with that simple (and complicated) act of personal generosity I began to understand that there was so much more to life than what I’d seen of it so far. From Dani I got my first real glimpse of how people are supposed to treat one another. I already knew what kind of person I wanted to be, but Dani showed me how to start getting there. That’s not to say that we agreed about everything, because we certainly didn’t, but in a way that was a big part of the point: that people can hold wildly divergent points of view and still like and respect one another for who they are. That friends can disagree without being disagreeable, and without damaging their relationship. This was an extremely new concept for me at the time, but it’s been a marvelous blessing for me in the years since then, in all of my relationships.

So…fast forward. I now have a happy life, a happy marriage, happy kids. But a few months ago a vague sense of discontent started to creep in, and I didn’t know how to address it. When it got to the point where I was picking fights with Steve over meaningless crap, I knew something had do be done to fix things. But what?

Well, twenty years ago Dani helped me to get my ducks in a row. I figured maybe she could do it again. And if not, at least I’d get a nice change of scenery. ;^)

So I went to Georgia, and Dani and I spent two weeks talking about shoes and ships and sealing-wax and gardening and food and the true meaning of happiness. We agreed on some stuff and disagreed on a bunch of other stuff, just like the old days. We grokked that we’ve both changed a lot since we were teenagers (well, duh). And somewhere in there I found the fresh perspective that I was looking for. I realized that I’d been avoiding some issues in my life that really needed to be addressed, and stubbornly confronting some other issues that aren’t really worth my trouble at all. I realized how thankful I am for the good things in my world. Whatever it was that needed adjustment in my outlook got adjusted, and I (eventually) returned home with a new appreciation for my life and all its many blessings.

Good friends are a gift from God. I love you lots, Dani. :^)

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