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As The Week Turns

Monday morning after I left the library I headed to Boot Barn and picked up some new boots and a nice shirt to wear to Wednesday’s hearing. I needed them anyway, this just let me justify the expense. Then I went to the courthouse in Temecula to file the papers.

Miraculously, there was no line at all. I walked right up and handed them to the lady.

She stamped my custody response thingy, but handed the Proof Of Service form back to me. “They missed a line. I can’t accept this.” I looked where she was pointing, and the Date and Time of Service lines had been left empty.

“I was present,” I said hopefully. “Can I just….”

“The signer has to do it,” she said flatly.

Of course she does. I trudged out of the courthouse and called Jenny on my cell to find out if we could connect before Wednesday. Turned out she was at work — in Temecula — and would get off around 3 or 3:30. I had nothing else pressing to do that day, so I told her I would go get something to eat and then hang around Temec until she got off work. That way I could run back to the courthouse and get the darn thing filed and out of the way.

I grabbed some lunch and then checked out the showtimes for Half-Blood Prince, but it’s a long movie and I didn’t quite have time to catch the next showing, so I went back to the library and hung out there for a couple hours.

Jenny got off a little after 3:30, we met up at a Chevron, she scribbled in the date and time of service on the forms, I sped back to Murrieta and got to the courthouse doors at 3:59.

And was told that the public filing department closes at 4:00. I would have to come back another day.

Yeah. That kind of week.

So I went to see The Half-Blood Prince. I was pulling into the theater parking lot when I got a call from one of the members of my worship team to say that that afternoon’s practice had been canceled. I had actually forgotten all about it, which I have never done before, but it’s been, you know, that kind of week.

Half-Blood Prince was easily the best of the Potter movies so far, but I’m afraid I wasn’t in the proper frame of mind to really appreciate it.

Tuesday morning I had an appointment to take Stripes The Cat to get fixed. Which could have been awkward because my sister works there at the vet clinic, but she was friendly and chatty and she looked like married life suits her, so that was cool.

Tuesday afternoon there was a meeting for Vacation Bible School volunteers. Yes, I am one of those. They are short on volunteers this year and once you have been in a place where there’s something you need to do but you can’t do it alone and then people step forward and help you get it done…once you have been there, after that when someone asks you for help you say “Sure, what do you need?” Because now you know that’s one of the things that makes the world worth living in.

After the VBS meeting I went back to the vet, collected Stripes and went home.

That afternoon when the horses wandered in from the pasture to be fed I noticed that Stormy was literally covered in little bumps, like bee stings or birdshot wounds.

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And her hindquarters looked like they’d been chewed on.

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I still have no idea what happened to her, but she seems okay otherwise.

I was afraid I’d be up all night fretting about the next day’s hearing, but I drank a cup of herbal tea and went to bed and was out like a light.

To Be Continued!

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Cows and Gizmos

A while back, before school got out for the summer, I promised Luke and Elizabeth that we’d go back to The Imagination Workshop sometime during summer vacation. “Sometime before you go to camp,” I promised them. We’d gone once before, almost exactly a year ago, and we’d loved it.

A few days ago Luke reminded me that they were leaving for camp on the 19th, and we hadn’t gone to the Workshop yet. D’oh! So I decided we could squeeze that in amongst the errands I needed to run in Temec yesterday.

We were about 30 minutes into our commute down the hill when I got a call from the caretaker at Trinity: the Mighty Herd was loose and wandering down a paved road. Groan! I did a U-turn and headed back to help catch them.

It was baffling, because I had JUST walked the entire fenceline the previous afternoon, so I knew the pasture was sound. How in the world had the cows pushed their way out?

After the caretaker and I had gotten them back inside I hiked back down the fence again, looking for clues, and discovered that the cows hadn’t pushed their way out at all.

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All five strands of wire had been cut. There were quad tracks leading up to the break in the fence, and leading away again in a in a slightly different direction. Quad, not truck, so this wasn’t a theft attempt. Just a case of malicious mischief.

I had a little roll of baling wire and my fencing pliers in the car already (because I’m all MacGyvery that way) (and also it’s been way too long since I’ve cleaned out my car), so I showed the caretaker what I’d found, patched up the fence, and continued on down to Temecula.

First stop: my haircut. I do love a shiny new haircut.

And then the Imagination Workshop, and it was just as cool as we remembered!

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Elizabeth and The Impossible Triangle. A different camera angle reveals the secret:

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Behold Infinity (and my new haircut) in the Kaleidoscope Room!

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Luke is so completely in his element in this place. The gadgets, the gizmos, the whangdoodles!!

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Elizabeth is mostly just inspired to get in touch with her inner goofball.

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Anyway, we had a ball and I’m glad I made time for it, even if it was about 10pm by the time we’d finished all our errands and made it home.

I can’t believe summer vacation is halfway over already. Where does it GO? Clearly there is some sort of warp in the time-space continuum at work here.

I’m sure Luke will get it all figured out someday, and invent a device to counteract the effect.

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It’s Too Hot For Good Composition. I’ll Just Use Lots Of Asterisks.

I’m in another one of those bloggy dry spells where there’s a bunch of stuff going on that I can’t write about. It’s not bad stuff this time though, it’s good stuff that I don’t want to jinx!

After much thought and examination of my Moving Forward options, I finally (and somewhat reluctantly) decided that I was approaching things from the wrong direction. I need to break my financial dependence on Steve first, and THEN get out of Dodge. Most of my MANY plans for immediate departure basically boiled down to “…and then I’ll probably be okay until I can find work.”

That’s wishful thinking in this economy. What if I CAN’T find work? Lots and lots and lots of people are out of work right now. People are losing their homes all over the place, and I was making plans to just blithely walk away from mine, with two kids in tow, trusting that God would provide.

He HAS provided. Right here. I just need to tough it out until I know for sure that when I leave it’ll be a step up and not a step down.

Job opportunities are about nil in Anza right now, but I am not without prospects. I don’t want to say too much about that now. Further updates as events warrant.

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Those of you who have known me for very long, and those of you who know me IRL, know that I am all about the communication, the problem solving, the win/win solution. In general philosophy I am something very close to pacifistic. I certainly do not endorse violence as a viable means of resolving issues. The occasional incident when my head explodes and I do something…non-tranquil…always comes after my very best efforts at respectful and amicable communication have utterly failed.

That said, if I had known how many annoying issues I could resolve with one well-aimed Blizzard, I would have lofted one at Steve’s head MONTHS ago.

I’m just saying.

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Filing for divorce in California is a bureaucratic labyrinth. The upside is that if you’re church-mouse poor like me they let you wander through the maze for free. I keep telling myself that it’s a Learning Experience.

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It turns out that a single parent cannot have a social life, happy children, an orderly garden, and a clean home all at the same time. Best I can do at any given time is three out of four, and usually it’s more like two out of four. Most of my corn plants burned up in a sudden heat wave during which I forgot to water the garden for something like four or five days straight.

Learning Experience. I’ll get the juggling act mastered eventually.

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My new grooming budget goes like this: I let my hair grow out until it becomes a nuisance, and then I go to this great-but-expensive salon in Temec to get it bobbed up to my chin and highlighted. I tried going to a cheaper haircutting place in hopes that I could then afford to get it cut more often, but both the cut and the highlights were of unacceptably low quality, and also the chemicals burned my scalp and then my hair started breaking off. So…I keep plunking down the $150 at the good place every four or five months. It’s about that time again. This week or next, I think.

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Luke just wandered in from his bedroom, where he’d been trying to invent a Wallace-And-Gromit-esque “getting dressed device,” and sadly announced that things had not gone as well as he’d hoped.

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I call it a good effort, anyway.

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I’m fattening a steer, but he’s refusing to fatten. I don’t know if it’s the heat or the flies or the solitude or what, but he just picks at his food and looks all grouchy. From now on I will only fatten steers in the wintertime, and if possible I will fatten two together so they won’t be lonely. Not sure what do to about this guy though, other than hope that this heat wave breaks soon (and hope that that’s the problem).

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I’ve been feeling the need for another pilgrimage to Mt. Rubidoux, but it’s way too hot to plan one now. Fall seems like too long to wait. Sigh.

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It’s HOT.

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Okay, that’s everything.

PS: It’s hot, folks.

Categories: Christianity, Family, frugality, Gardening, Life | 1 Comment

Contributing To The Geekiness Of Minors, Part 3

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Earlier posts on this topic can be found here and here.

It’s hard to take Star Trek: The Original Series seriously in terms of plot, believability, acting talent and so on. Don’t get me wrong, the kids and I just finished Season 2 and we’re enjoying our almost-nightly episodes, but…we’re not into it for the realism.

Luke’s favorite part of the show is predicting which red-shirted ensign is going to die first in each episode. Last week we had a great moment when Luke was actually in mid-sentence: “Rest in peace, Redsh–” when a nearby alien suddenly decided to pull a dagger out of nowhere and fling it straight into the hapless ensign’s heart. Dude never even saw it coming, just fell dead in his tracks. Those shirts are LETHAL, man!

Elizabeth finds Kirk’s indiscriminate dalliances highly amusing. Some hot alien chick gets a close-up shot with the soft-focus lens and Elizabeth is all, “Oh, yeah, there’s gonna be kissing.” As soon as Kirk starts talking to the chick Elizabeth starts dubbing in her own dialogue in a sleazy Kirk-voice: “Hey, Baby. You look like you could use some kissin’, whaddaya say?”

Me, I just can’t get over how YOUNG they all are. They’re all smooth and fit and can dash across rocky alien landscapes with the greatest of ease! (I try to avoid watching the bonus material. Shatner and Nimoy look like a geriatric version of Laurel and Hardy in their recent interviews.)

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Luke and Elizabeth have been coming with me to my worship meetings now that Steve is, for the time being, out of the picture. (I’m not sure which I find more illuminating: the fact that he hasn’t so much as called the kids to say hello since The Blizzard Incident, or the fact that they’ve expressed zero interest in calling him. Apparently there’s no relationship there at all, other than the one between Elizabeth and Steve’s PS2…she has mentioned that she misses that.)

Anyway, this works out great on Thursdays, because on that day the meeting is at the church and so is the youth group thing. So yesterday Luke and Elizabeth got to frolic amongst their own kind and play games and make crafts and Elizabeth whipped up this bit of glue art:

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She calls it, “Kirk gets buried by tribbles.”

Oh yeah. Resistance is futile.

I think it’s safe to say that their assimilation is complete.

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Wordless Wednesday: Swingin’ Sunset

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